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My posts are a mix of fandom and RL. Many, but not all, RL posts are friends locked. Most fandom posts are unlocked.
- I no longer automatically friend people back. Mostly to keep my flist manageable.
- Feel free to friend me but I may not friend back right away. A good portion of my posts are not locked and I enjoy engaging in conversations with people on those posts. I've found that adding "friends" on LJ is better left as an organic thing that progresses mostly from interchanged comments on mutual LJs. I've struck up friendships with folks I've never met in RL just by getting spontaneously involved in mini comment-fests on either my or their LJs or even in a third-parties LJ.
- De-friending amnesty is every day. Hey this LJ thing called "friends" can feel awkward sometimes right? Everyone, methinks, has those moments of, "Oh noes! someone doesn't like me anymore!" However, interests change, life changes, etc. If you want/need to defriend, go ahead! I'll do the same if I feel we've either never really connected or our interests-in-comment have decreased a lot.
See my profile for more about me.
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